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Thursday, July 22, 2010

Dingleberries don't make good friends


* My ex boyfriend really is a great guy but not the one for me.  He just doesn't understand that.  I want to break all ties with him but he gets so angry and I don't know what he will do so I continue to talk to him.

* I have really tried being friends with my ex yet every time I go around him he wants so much more.  Even though I don't want to give in to the temptation I always do.  That is one reason I just don't want to be around him anymore.

* My ex has huge anger management issues that he doesn't even see himself.  If things don't go his way he tends to break things or do mean stuff to really hurt others and he never feels remorse about anything he does.  Well, if he feels bad it never shows.  He has put a video of me masturbating on you tube, called my boss and told him I was on drugs, told my current boyfriend that I have been fucking him and lots of mean things just because he was angry cuz he didn't think I was spending enough time with him.  

* As much as I try to explain to him that we need to just go our seperate ways he doesn't understand.  I don't know what else to say to make him understand my side of the issue. That we aren't going to work at best buddies.  Maybe casual friends, but best buds isn't working out.  Why can't he just see that I don't want to do the things we do anymore? 

* I must admit that I still love my ex.  I can't just stop loving him but I don't want to be with him. I am not in love with him anymore.  My heart is somewhere else.  Things would never work out and I just wish he would let me go and move on.   :(

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5 comments:

  1. You can't wait for him to let you go is your life you have to be strong and stand up for yourself. You don't have to explain yourself to him you can do what ever the hell you want and if he don't like it then to bad. If a guy did that kind of shit to me he would have been long gone. Let him get mad who cares Show him your serious and kick this guy out of your life for good!!

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  2. I feel like shit ....if it wasn't for me u may have never
    Hooked up with that crazy boy .... drugs have so rotted his
    Brain he really was a nice guy at one time but not anymore
    He's lost inside and I really don't think he will b found again.
    So please my sista close that chapter of Ur life. The more you answer
    The phone or txt or hell give him a ride the more he will latch
    On to u and u r going to b always looking over Ur shoulder
    For the next stupid childish thing he will do ...
    So u can still love him and care for him but for the love of god change Ur number....I love u and I'm sorry for all that dam crazy Ass drama............I'm drama free and fucking bored shitless.....down here so come to me for awhile .....

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  3. It alot easier said than done. Yes, I know that I shouldn't have anything to do with this guy after the pain he has caused me but I still care about him. I finally told him today that all the times we have spent together are over. I have to make decisions to better mine and my childs life. That does not include continuing a relationship with him like I have. I was so scared he would get super pissed and say some really mean things but he didn't. He is obviously annoyed that I won't drop everything and just go running to him but he hasn't really talked mean to me. I will always be here for him to talk to, but all the other crap has got to end. It's only causing everyone grief and pain that is uncalled for.

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  4. I got a couple of comments from the dingleberry in question, which I am not going to post.

    Leave her alone. She doesn't want to be with you and it doesn't matter if you think you're not doing any harm -- you are. She has made her decision and I am not going to indulge your selfish desire to hang on to her through manipulation such as that you tried to post on my site.

    If you want her back, you might consider getting some counseling for your anger management and drug issues. If she decides that she wants to be with you of her own volition after you've shown a true desire to improve yourself, then that is her choice. Forcing yourself into her life when she obviously doesn't want to be with you only makes it harder for both of you.

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  5. OMG, I love you Kelly. Will you marry me? LOL. That was so well said. I am sure those comments were exactly the things he says to me. Now someone else sees what I have to deal with. I care about him and do not want anything bad to happen to him but, like you said, you can't force someone to be with you. You made my day. :)

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