A safe place

1. The biggest lie I've ever told you was "im not falling in love with you"

2. I've sprayed one of my pillows with your perfume so when im feeling down i can cuddle it and pretend you're here with me.

3. When you leave me in your flat i climb into your bed and curl up, its the only place i feel safe in the world.

4. I will never tell you i didn't finish my degree, how could you ever love me if i wasn't smart.

5. You are the only thing stopping me from taking my own life. You have saved me, but you'l never know.

Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight

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Way to go master

1. I'm a complete hypocrite. I do firmly believe that everybody is beautiful. But I can't love myself. All I see is a 300 lbs chick that has to tuck her fat roll into her jeans, who can pinch as much fat on my neck as most skinny chicks pinch on their tiny tummies, whose smile is totally fake.

2. There is an exception to 1. I feel completely beautiful and sexy when I'm sucking my husbands dick. We've been together for seven years, and just last year we had a very sexually revealing talk while drunk. He admitted to me that hes turned on by petting and nuzzling, like a cat. so for the past year, hes been calling me kitty and I've been calling him master.And I feel like I can't tell anybody about the most wonderful sexual thing in my life.

3. I cheated on my husband for about a month with my ex, right before we moved to florida. I think about it every day and regret it constantly. I will never tell him.

4. I think I sexually molested my cousin and my step sister. When we were younger, I made them suck my nipples. I dont remember how I got them to do it and I feel so bad about it and disgusted with myself. I dont know if they remember so I dont feel right apologizing to them. I also often wonder if I was sexually molested (because I molested other people) when I was little but have blocked the memory out.

5. I'm turned on by thoughts of incest (not any of my family members), dads with their young daughters or brother and sister together. And I'm turned on by trannies, cuz I love tits but I also love dick. And I'm also turned on by pissing. I dated a guy once who was too but we never did anything cuz he was the type of douche that would tell everybody afterwards. I've only ever told my master. I'm so so glad I have him in my life.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: bisexual

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Bad feelings are better than no feelings

1. i still have hard sexual feelings toward my ex girlfriend

2. my girlfriend i have now i seem to have lost interest in, shes a beautiful woman hot body and truely smart but we’ve started to loose attraction for each other even though were still dating.

3. my ex girlfriend was my current girlfriends best friend, until i came into the picture, i dumped my ex just for her.

4. I fantasize about fuckin every hot chick i see as well as my ex, we always did something that pleased us both, now i dont even get that. Im in a sexless relationship and i really dont know why.

5. Sometimes i wish i had no feelings for women at all .

Ps: kay i wanted to get a experts advice on my situation and that is, me and my girlfriend are loosing our attraction in each other, we hardly kiss each other anymore, im the only guy she has that ever treated her like a queen and took great care of her in every situation but were in a sexless r/s that feels like its goin down the tubes and i just wanted to get some advice on what i should do. Ever since she found out mank account balance she wants to be with me more(go figure) but we dont do anything anymore we dont even tell each other we love each other and when i see other people in their relationships hugging and cuddling with each other, it makes me sad deep down that i dont have what they do. Kay what do you think i should do:/

Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight

Admin here --

First, I'm not an expert. I just read a lot of secrets.

All you can do when you have a problem in a relationship is try to understand on a fundamental level what is bothering you and then address that. Usually it comes down to some kind of fear -- but figuring out what that is can be VERY hard regardless of how much you try to work it out. Try talking to her about your problems and you might be surprised what she says. If that doesn't work try going to couples counseling. If that doesn't work, I don't know what else to tell you. Both of you have to be willing to do what it takes to make it work and if that's not the case there probably isn't anything you can do besides move on and try to find someone you CAN make it work with.

Good luck.

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Is it okay if he never chooses?

1. I'm deeply in love with a married man... I'm 34 and at this point I am able to say I've found the man of my life. He's 41 and has a 16 years old daughter. Family seems to be a great value to him. When he met his wife 20 years ago, she's already had a baby. She's a bit older than him. It's now years they sleep in seperate bedrooms.

2. The way we met : we take each day the same train. Everyday for months we've been somehow looking for each other in this train. We needed to have each other at sight as often as possible for these 40 mins long fares. One day, he used the courage I was missing to ask me for a coffee. I thought I was dreaming... of course I couldn't do anything but accept the offer.

We met end of July this year. He's someone who has deep problems with lying. So after a 3 weeks long relationship with me, his wife, who found him acting strange and being very distracted at home, made him confess her he had an extra marriage relationship. He was devastated. I was too.

3. One week had passed when his wife finally asked him to make a choice between her and me (during a nearly full week, he left her in doubts). It then took him 2 full days to tell her he'd chosen her over me. Of course I understood why, but I thought I'd die from the breaking up.

4. In the next days, we've decided to remain friends. As we still had to travel together, we thought that was the best thing to do. We Knew we couldn't just ignore each other in the train and friendship seemed to be the only thing left to us...

But then, not even a week later, we were making love in a bed.

5. Since this marvelous time, we've met again and again... We've spent 3 days together in Southern France. Now, I don't know what to think anymore. He says he can't choose now and needs time. I say I can't live without him... what would you say?!

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight

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Words fail

5. I hate myself, my mom is my hero & the strongest person Ive ever met. I wish like hell I had half her strength and selflessness.

4. I look at my sons and wish they understood how sick I am. Or that they were old enough to see that despite how much funner he is, their dad did me VERY wrong. And hasn't really made any true attempt to make it up or make it better. Just expecting Ill forget everything, and keep letting him get away with it.

3. He told me Im too scared to follow through when i said I wanted to die. Truth is, my love for my mom & sons is the only reason Im here now that someone has stolen my husband away . He & his 19yr old girlfriend agreed my boys are better off without me, so why would i bother?

2. I love far too much. Existing like this hurts so much and I cry every time Im alone.I invest too much of me in others to an almost inhuman extent, break my back trying to be there for everyone around me. But now that I have cancer and is progressing so quickly. I look around and all the people I thought would always be there to have abandoned me or don't know how to treat me now... my mom is the only one who seems to really care if i let this beat me...

1. IM in far too much pain to continue like this. I throw up blood numerous times a day I poo blood frequently. There is blood every time I urinate now. I'm being ripped apart from the inside out but i put on a brave face for the people around me. That I can protect him. But when I look into their eyes... Especially my husbands I wonder why no one cares about protecting me? why no one loves me enough to fall apart like i would if it were them... The worst part of cancer isn't knowing I'm going to die and it's not how much pain I have to live with or watching myself waste away... The worst part about cancer is that it has been such an eye-opener it has shown me how little I am worth to all the people in this world that I love and would die for.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight

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Four year farce

1. Im in Love with a girl who i barely know for 3 months.She's straight & we're close. I tell her everything but she doesnt know i like her. My friends told me that i made it obvious but why doesnt she see? She likes a guy & everytime she goes out with him,i get super jealous. My heart sinks kmowing that i dont stand a chance

2. i pretended to be a guy when i was 17. when i met a girl,she thought i was a guy and she let me suck her breast and kiss the crap out of her. She was still underage.

3.Im in a relationship with a girl for  4 years but she doesnt know im a girl. She thinks im a guy.

4.When i was 14,my best guy friend took advantage of me and forced me to do oral sex on him. After that he disappeared.

5.I used to take my brother's hand when he was sleeping & run it all over my body especially my nipples and i used to play with his little dick until one time he woke up and caught me. He told my parents but i kept denying it saying it didnt happen. Its still awkward between us and i feel very guilty everytime..


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Sexual Orientation: n/a



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I wonder which congressman it was?

1. I am currently seeing two different men. One supports me, as in finances. I don't consiter it to be a real relationship bc I am not turned on by him in the least..in fact he repulses me to the point where I cringe when he touches me. He is not bad looking and he is kind. Most women would be lucky to have him. But I can't stand him. The second guy is sort of a loser..but he is helping me build my career..and we are close and have fun together...I am seriously bored to tears sexually with him though.

2. I dated a girl once but felt board sexually after a while and felt a lot of pressure to have more money to take her out and buy nice things. She was a nice and sucessful..but boreing.
3. I think I am in love with a guy who I spent a few weeks with this past winter..he is an artist..broke..peter pan syndrome. he is living in another country now..going to art school of all things..he is almost thirty and is nowhere close to being a grown up. But he is amaizing. I don't know why.
4. I took the above mentioned guys virginity. He was saving it for twenty eight years for marrage and then we had sex after spending two weeks together. I thought this ment he was in love with me..but I was wrong. When I asked him why he gave it to me he said it was bc he was tired of waiting and I was the hottest girl he ever had the chance to b with.

5. I hate being poor..and have done some pretty bad stuff I guess to keep my head above water...worked in a strip club..had(have) a sugar daddy. Had sex with a congressmen for 4k. I don't really feel guilt for anything..I think I was born wo the abillity to feel guilt as an emotion.


Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: n/a



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They always go home to her...

1. Im pregnant by a guy who wont work, gets high all the time, a player, an asshole, and who I also care for and love.


2. Im half way through collage and he didn't even graduate high school. I hate him for that, I hate him for ruining my life and making me the way I am now.


3. Im falling in love with a married man, which I know is wrong but me and him are so much alike it hurts to know he goes home to her.


4. I want to keep my baby but idk if I can do it alone without my babys father being there.


5. I hate one of my best friends and most of my family, not because im jealous but because I just can't stand them.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight



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Sex does burn a lot of calories

1: i was sexually abuse by my older sister, she made me cum for the first time when i was 10 uears old. Im 23 now and i fantasize about banging her in every position and every orface possible. Nobody knows any of this....
2: i want to have a threesome with my girlfriend and either my sister or hers.
3: im a personal trainer and i make $ on the side fucking my female clients in the locker room, sex burns alot of calories :)
4: im in love with a girl i met a few months ago, if she gives me the chance i will leave my gf for her.
5: my girlfriend wont try anal but i know her sister likes it...shes in town, im getting her drunk and goin for it tonight, i hope my gf catches us
Bonus: my gf loves this site and il bet she reads this post to me and says "this guys a piece of shit"


Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight


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The secrets men keep

1- i love my newborn son to death but i resent that my girlfriend secretly stopped taking the pill so she cud get pregnant. Im only with her because i want to be a better parent than mine were.
2- i'm in love with my best friend. She is incredible and we get handsy when we drink, but we never fuck or date because we dont want to compromise our friendship.
3- my girlfriend thinks she is my third, iv had sex with 13 girls, 8 since she got pregnant.
4- im addicted to sex, but my gf is not horny or open minded. I masterbate several times a day and im almost to the point i want to rape her. I love shoving my cock down a girls throat and eating her out. Id like to try anal again but im afraid To hurt a girl.
5- i drink and party but no one knows i secretly do drugs too. I get high and get in fights because im so numb i kno i cant lose. Im afraid il end up killing someone


Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight


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Unforgettable

1) i'm a sohpmore in highschool and I'm already thinking that I wont get into a good college even with a decent act score from my junior year

2) I want to go into culinary arts and even with the amount of people supporting me my dad telling me 'it's going to be too expensive to get a phd' and 'I'll never get a job' tear me down more than anyone knows.

3) I hate my dad but his opinion seems to be the one that stands out among the rest. Even past my boyfriend's who supports me fully in my plan for schooling.

4) My boyfriend might be making maybe around 100k-200k a year if that because of the feild of machining he's going to go into. I'll be making maybe 100k a year. I feel like I wont be making jack shit compaired to him.

5) I txt my boyfriend every night before I go to bed, well pass out from exhaustion, because if I dont, my thoughts come right back. The bad part is that when I wake up and can type coherently it's too late to tell him goodnight and that  I love him. I feel like he'll forget if I dont tell him everyday.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight



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Love at first fuck

I'm 20 falling for a guy that is 25.

The guy is my current boyfriends ex boyfriend.

We had a threesome with him last night, and I barely even saw my bf, only the 25 year old.

Hethrew me on the bed called me a sluty whore and  completely dominated my while my bf watched.

I keep dreaming about his warm hands.. And other things warm, I keep dreaming about his sweet lips and sexy face.... I'm in love with him.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: bisexual


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People can be jerks, who cares what a jerk thinks?

1) I've cut myself 3 or 4 times. I want to keep doing it, although I know how unhealthy it is. But 2010 was such a bad year, and this year hasn't exactly started out great. I fee so alone, I feel like all my friends have turned on me, and no longer wish to be my friend. I feel cutting myself takes away the pain, atleast for a bit...

2) I am still in love with my ex, who broke up with me over a year ago. I know I shouldn't be, but I think about him all the time, and wish he would come back to me. I know he never will, especailly since he has a new gf, who he seems happier with. I want a bf, i've had crushes, all out of my reach of taken though. If neither of those, they have a fling with someone, which has been a friend of mine almost everytime this year. Im too ugly and too weird to get a decent guy. The few single friends I have, aren't interested in guys, they prefer it solo, atleast till college. Me, I want a bf because i like having the specail support. Someone who isn't a friends, becuase you have more than one of those for the mmost part, but a boyfriend who would my mine, and mine only. But knowing I'll probly be single forever hurts... I wish I could prevent all heartbreak, because its the most horrid feeling anyone can experience emotionally. From a break up to the death of a loved one, it hurts. A shout out to all you who are heartbroken, it gets better. Maybe you never fully heal, but that gap in your heart gets so much easier to live with.

3) I get made fun of for being Asian all the time. I never had an issue with that untill highschool. Now im singled out in front of the whole class and made fun of. I hate the Americans can be so racist sometimes. Just becuase us asains look different doesn't mean you have the right to make fun of us in ur movies, or promote us as short people with little eyes. I hate that people make fun of our eyes and how we talk all the time. I hate that some chinese are told not to tlak when they get to America becuase of how much they'll be made fun of. Its not right.

4) I've had 2 people die that I was actully close to. One being a sister at heart. Everyone thinks it hasn't efected me. Truth is, I think about her everyday. I never knew her in person, because our whole group was serperated by alot by the time we were 5, but just a year before she died, we had been texting, and altough i didn't know her very well, i feel like a part of me died. I wonder why did she have to die? Why couldn't God have taken me? Im sure she deserved to live more than me. Why couldn't have the option to give her my life? She had so much more to live for.

5) I think about death alot. I think about, what if I wasn't here who would care? no one. I dont want to kill my self, I just wonder what the reaction would be if i did die. Alot of the time, I just want to go to sleep and never wake up. I don't want to take my own life. I think there are so many people hurting, I wish I could give their loved one their life back, because they deserve to live more than me. I dont believe ive done anything too drastic as to derserve to die, but i know there are some that have died, that deserve life more than me.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight


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I know stuff about Canadia

1. I hate how Americans don't learn about Canada and know nothing about us (Sorry no offence to the USA)

2. I just got in touch with a guy I liked 5 years ago, and just found out he liked me back then and still likes me... Only problem is I don't know what to do about him I have a boyfriend but talking to him brings back a bunch of memories. I'm stuck in a secret love triangle and nobody can help me with it...

3. I feel bad about my past and things I've done but I also don't want to change my life.

4. I'm addicted to the pain of tattoos and peircings, it's like a thrill for me.

5. I have only been able to trust one person in my life, and I loved him for being different but then he showed me that all guys are the same, and run with things get tough.... I guess you can't trust anyone but yourself eh?

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight


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Threeways aren't all they're cracked up to be

1. I am pretty sure im bi-polar

2. i get mad at my girlfriend when i have thoughts about how many people she has been with or anytime i see one of her ex's.  weve been dating for a couple of years. i just get in a bad mood towards her when i have those thoughts and i won't even tell her why.

3. i also get mad at her if im watching a porn or a conversation comes up about 3 somes. she has had one (that i know of) and i havent. i feel like i resent her for that and me not having a threesome.

4. I have the craziest sex fantasys and i mean crazy.  I love wild, rough, and crazy sex. i just wish my girl would open up.  2 years and she hasn't.

5. I love pussy but i have a urge to suck a guys cock.  nothing else.  i really want to have a guy force me to.  and i want to while a girl (either my girl friend or some other woman) watchs and/or video tapes it.

Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: other


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Once a day must be tough

#1 I have fallen in love with my sweetheart from from my past she makes me complete in every way possible.

#2 I freaking hate my ex she's a wore and nothing else I hope one day she just goes away and leave me alone for good.

#3 With number one I would've been with from the start when I met her but I thought everyone would've looked down on me but now I know I should've took a dive and just gone all out with her.

#4 Our parents just meet for the first time I'm freaking out bc I want our parents to come together as one and finally have a great big family.

#5 With the greatest girl I'm with I'm trying to get her pregnant so bad it hurts but I wish we would have more sex then just once a day but anything else life is awesome can't wait to marry her and be with her forever.

Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight


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Cheater squared

1. My boyfriend of a few months cheated on me about 3 months ago. He said he was really drunk and nothing (to my knowledge has happened since).

2. I forgave him but I cannot forget, it is basically haunting me, but if I ever bring up my insecurity he gets mad that I can't leave it alone.

3. I myself am a cheater too, I cheated on my husband for my boyfriend, so I'm not sure why I'm so bothered by his cheating on me.

4. I plan to have another child with my husband soon, luckily my boyfriend won't be in the picture. My job is having me move to where my husband is stationed and I still want to try to make it work with him.

5. I love my boyfriend, but I feel like he is shady and I don't know how to confront him about my insecurities in our relationship.

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks K.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight

[Sounds like it's sort of a moot point -- if you're moving away from your boyfriend soon, why worry about him cheating on you retroactively? Enjoy what time you have left with him.

I'm not sure if I should really say anything else, but it did occur to me in reading this post that it seems like a bad idea to bring another child into your marriage. I am probably biased because I have always felt that if I were to feel the need to cheat in a monogamous relationship, I should probably end it. It's only happened to me once, when I was engaged. I only kissed the guy a couple of times one evening, but I ended my engagement three days later, before doing anything else, and I have never regretted it. It just seems to me that if you're willing to actually follow through on cheating (especially if you know your partner would likely leave you should they find out), you've already given up on the relationship whether you admit it to yourself or not. No judgment, just my two cents. Do with it what you will.
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Don't let yourself fall in love

1) everyday i sit here depressed not doing anything because i'm afraid of what people will say about me. i never go out and i sit all day on the computer.

2) my ex and i broke up over a year ago but i'm still not over her. i see how perfect her new guy is for her and how he does things she loved that i didnt like to do. and it kills to know im nothing to her now.

3) i have anger problems and i lie too much to a lot of people.

4) i hate how i look. i think im fat and ugly. and i feel i will always be alone forever because of it. being alone is my biggest fear.

5) i really like one of my best friends that i have now. i find her to be so amazing and so perfect and i know no one else can make her happier than i can. but she only sees me as a friend and it kills me when i see how guys always screw her over and continually hurt her when i know i would treat her right and never do that to her.  but im nowhere close to being cute enough for her so i know i have no chance. i hate that i feel like i might fall in love with her and she wont even like me and i'll be depressed even more.

Gender: male
Sexual Orientation: straight


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Maybe you're a good person already

One: I wake up everyday feeling like a failure even though I work two jobs it still feels like I should be doing more.

Two: i think I'm bisexual I don't want to be I really want to be with a guy but I have thoughts about girls also

Three: I'm I'm love with this one guy who prob. Don't even give a damn about me cause he has a GF. But me and him had sex twice and it was great. I'm no home wrecker but I can't help who I love

Four: I enjoy watching porn I can watch it like I'm watching regular tv

Five: I really want to be a better person I just don't know how

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight


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Nope, that's not cheating

1. I always felt like I should have been a boy... Not that I want to be but if I was a boy instead of a girl maybe my dad would have stayed with my mom and not cheated on her.

2. I have a boyfriend but I still need attention from other guys, Not that I would cheat on him but I like flirting with other guys... Does that count as cheating?

3. I'm in love with a guy I've known for 7 years but havent seen in about 5 years. I would drop everything for him.

4.I've started drinking and I'm worried I'm going to end up being an alcoholic like the rest of my family.

5. The only thing I've been able to trust is a cat that I had to put down 2 years ago... I still cant forgive myself for it, and even got a tattoo for him because of it.. But it still didnt make me feel any better.

Gender: female
Sexual Orientation: straight


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